New Meaning of Serenity:
Perspective for an Internet Marketer’s Success
“When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.”
“Wayne Dyer”
Serenity is a matter of Perspective:
This blog post will talk about serenity as a matter of perspective. Serenity applies to every aspect of one’s life and certainly to your business and especially Internet Marketing.
We’ve had a series of themes on serenity in this blog site.
(1) New Meaning of Serenity:the Way of Personal and business Life
(2) New Meaning of Serenity:the Way of Personal and business Life Serenity as the Inner Stability
(3) New Meaning of Serenity: the Way of Personal and Business Life-Day 3 Positive and-Negative-Impulses
(4) New Meaning of Serenity: the Way of Personal and Business Life: Internet Marketer’s Guide
(“Minding Your Own Business)
I have been so blessed to have many great mentors and teachers in my life. Some I have studied with for many years. Some have passed away. Some are much younger than I am. Some I met only once or twice at workshops and I studied on my own from their books, DVD’s and CD’s.
Wayne Dyer is in the last category… I still consider him as my teacher. He gave a story… that really changed my life. A man loses his car key in the house when the electricity is out. But there is a light lit outside. So he thought it was silly to look for the key where it is dark. He goes outside to look for his key because it makes sense. He can see everything.
Perspective is just a viewpoint a person has. But most people think it is real. Most people feel their negative emotions that control their being are real.
In the field of home business, such as MLM marketers, more recently Internet Marketers often come with failing or bitter experiences in conventional job situations. They are seeking new opportunities. So frustration, low-self esteem, or lack of self confidence is very common.
Just like the rest of humanity, people when their job, business or school grades failed, they feel they are failures.
When people break up or get divorced, they either blame themselves or their partners or spouses.
“I got too fat and my husband didn’t love me anymore.”
“Deep inside I am no good and I am a failure, because I dropped out of college.”
“My new business failed and I lost several millions of dollars, I am finished. I’ll never recover from this. I am a failure.”
“I am going to do this Internet thing. It’s a get rich fast scheme. May be I will make money fast even though I’ve got no talent and really no good.”
At first people focus on the darkness of their experience as the only reality and then started to look for a shiny object outside of themselves.
How Do You Change the Way You Look at Things?
There are a few steps involved.
And as mentioned earlier, what you do for yourself in your life applies to your business. In this situation we are dealing with Internet marketing. ( Step 4)
1] Admit and accept you situation:
This means you just see your situation without assigning any blame.
{List how you see your situation now.}
Facts are different from your feelings or opinions.
If you have guilt, shame and blame attached to you situation list them.
Release them from your mind by saying these are just my feeling and thoughts and they are not real or permanent. Deep reflection, Daily walk, meditation and prayer may be used.
2] Begin to create a positive picture of the things you really want in your life:
Self love and respect…
{The things you want probably aren’t a big luxurious car, a big palace or getting your ex back. }
Serenity is an inside job. Feeling peace, calmness and possibilities of your deepest heart’s desire.
Make these things real. Imagine yourself having all these things.
3] Practice the attitudes of gratitude and forgiveness:
Just be open-minded.
Just be willing at first.
Practice being grateful of what you have.
Practice forgiveness… starting to forgive yourself first.
Focus on your strengths and unique qualities.
Practice is a very important idea and action.
You practice because you haven’t mastered at skill, yet.
Like playing football, tennis, surfing and any other sports.
Like playing musical instruments.
Like speaking a new language.
To get to how you feel is something you must practice…
Perspective for an Internet Marketer’s Success:
The Things You Look At Change!
4] Practice having faith that you are successful and your business is a success:
Serenity of knowing you are worthwhile human being and you are already successful.
Internet Marketers can take one idea and task a day and practice in three areas:
Follow and do one or two items daily, remembering that you are practicing.
- Marketing Skills.
(Traffic generation for free with blogging, YouTube videos and social media.
Paid Traffic Generation with solo ads and other paid ads… get help from your coach or a mastermind group.)
E-mail Campaigns as you build your list of subscribers.
- Build the Successful Mindset starting with serenity.
(Study personal development and success principles daily. Belong to a community where training and mastermind groups are available. )
- Continue to educate and build skill sets on technical aspects of Internet.
(auto-responder, split-testing, capture pages, software, Google plus, Skype, syndication, etc.)
Not all at once but learn and master step by step.
By patiently following all these steps, being mentored by someone already successful and supported by a mastermind group, your days will be filled with serenity, because you will reach for the Serenity tool box.
Examine what may be missing in your life right now.
With practicing these steps all these things are within your reach.
Look for the key.
At the right place!
I started to take my coaching and training online before COVIT-19 hit the world.
I really wanted to share with and teach people how to have a concrete method to regain their financial power in their lives in a short period of time. I have been teaching spirituality, wholistic health, personal development and Success Principles for a long time, but I felt many people really needed to have an effective way of getting a residual income.
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To your happiness and success,
Yukiko Iino