Seven Tips to Become the Person I Want to Be

Seven Tips to Become
the Person I Want to Be

Seven Tips to Become the Person I Want to Be
Most of people are just surviving from day to day.

• Financially, emotionally, or spiritually.
• Or all of the above.

I believe that most people are seeking more than a meaning for life and
that in their deepest soul they really want to experience joy of being alive not only for themselves, but for their loved ones and   even  humanity. 

These are the SEVEN characteristics or personal attributes you would like to work on to become the person you want to be.

{This discussion is not about ‘to have’ and ‘to do’ stages and rather our focus is on ‘to be’ stage discussed in an earlier blog.}

[1]  Be loyal:
be true to our word to all the people we come in contact with
be reliable and trustworthy with promises made, set a high standard to follow your commitments ( You won’t betray, lie, deceive and cheat)

[2] Be interconnected:
Nurture and honor those who know less than you in your sphere of influence…(They may seem to you like an ahole, clumsy ones, nerds or many other things beneath you.)  
Be kind and gentle to those who are not as skilled or educated as you are and those who are not like you. Be humble and be helpful without boasting your position or title or status   (judgmental thoughts will disappear)

[3] Action speaks louder than words or knowledge:
Set an example.
Don’t preach, screech, don’t brag, don’t nag,  don’t be pissy and don’t be pushy, don’t  try to control others  Show by example quietly

[4] Be generous: 
The bible is full of related proverbs on giving.
Give value and extra bonus.
Have faith in the law of reciprocity.
Give, you will receive and experience satisfaction.

[5] Be imaginative and adaptable:
Breathe deep and go deep inside and think outside the box.
Solution is staring at you in the face.
You will avoid emergencies and crises
Remember it’s not what happens to you but how you respond that counts.

 [6]  Acknowledge other’s contribution and magnificence:
   Put others before you.  Don’t give yourself lots of credit.
    Don’t be grabby. Don’t be conceited and ego-centric.

  [7] Develop organizational skills particularly to details:
   Be willing and be in the habit of delegating details to others who are capable.     Outsourcing!
    Don’t act like a control freak.  That’s the surest way to lose.

Work through your past:
If you had a difficult past and experienced lots of pain, your healing stage may have you scream to be “ Iam going to take care of myself.”  And you may not be ready to practice these character traits all at once.

If you are just getting over a bad day or a bad date, you may not want to be so nice.

• Practice a little at a time.
• you will start to attract the kind of wonderful people you really want to be with and you deserve to be with the kind you are practicing to become.
• You will become an expert at choosing a group of like-minded people like you will become.